Boy vs. Man — What's the Difference?
By Tayyaba Rehman — Updated on October 31, 2023
A boy is a male child or young person, while a man is an adult male, implying maturity and responsibility.
Difference Between Boy and Man
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Key Differences
A boy is typically a male child or adolescent, often characterized by a certain innocence and immaturity. In contrast, a man is an adult male, generally considered to possess a higher level of maturity, wisdom, and responsibility. This distinction is not just physical but also psychological and societal.
In terms of societal roles, a boy often lives under the care and guidance of parents or guardians, learning life's ropes. A man, however, is expected to be self-reliant, often responsible for caring for others or contributing to society. This distinction highlights the transition from dependency to independence.
Emotionally, boys are often in the process of understanding themselves and the world, still developing emotional intelligence. Men, conversely, are usually expected to have a better grasp on their emotions and handle situations with a certain level of emotional maturity.
In many cultures, the transition from boy to man is marked by certain rites of passage or ceremonies. While a boy might be treated with leniency for mistakes due to his age, a man is often held to higher standards of accountability.
The concepts of a boy and a man also carry different expectations in terms of relationships. Boys are often in the early stages of understanding relationships, while men are expected to be capable of forming deeper, more stable relationships, whether platonic, romantic, or professional.
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Comparison Chart
Age Group
Typically under 18 years old.
Usually 18 years and above.
Maturity Level
Generally less mature, still developing.
Expected to be more mature and responsible.
Societal Role
Dependent, often under parental care.
Independent, possibly responsible for others.
Emotional Development
Developing emotional intelligence.
Expected to have higher emotional maturity.
Accountability
Often given leniency due to age.
Held to higher standards of responsibility.
Compare with Definitions
Boy
A term of endearment for a male friend or partner, regardless of age.
Hey, boy, how's it going? he greeted his friend.
Man
A term of respect and endearment, often used by a spouse or partner.
You're my man, she said affectionately.
Boy
A young male servant or attendant.
The boy at the hotel delivered the message promptly.
Man
A man is an adult male human. Prior to adulthood, a male human is referred to as a boy (a male child or adolescent).
Boy
A son, regardless of age.
He proudly introduced his eldest boy to his colleagues.
Man
An adult male human.
Boy
Used informally to refer to a man, especially a young one.
That boy over there is the new intern.
Man
A human regardless of sex or age; a person.
Boy
A boy is a young male human. The term is usually used for a child or an adolescent.
Man
A human or an adult male human belonging to a specific occupation, group, nationality, or other category. Often used in combination
A milkman.
A congressman.
A freeman.
Boy
A male child.
Man
The human race; mankind
Man's quest for peace.
Boy
A son
His youngest boy.
Man
A male human endowed with qualities, such as strength, considered characteristic of manhood.
Boy
Often Offensive A man, especially a young man.
Man
A husband.
Boy
(Informal) A man socializing in a group of men
A night out with the boys.
Man
A male lover or sweetheart.
Boy
(Offensive) A male servant or employee.
Man
Workers.
Boy
Used to express mild astonishment, elation, or disgust
Oh boy—what a surprise!.
Man
Enlisted personnel of the armed forces
Officers and men.
Boy
A young male.
Kate is dating a boy named Jim.
Man
A male representative, as of a country or company
Our man in Tokyo.
Boy
(particularly) A male child or adolescent, as distinguished from infants or adults.
Man
A male servant or subordinate.
Boy
(diminutive) A son of any age.
Man
(Informal) Used as a familiar form of address for a man
See here, my good man!.
Boy
A male of any age, particularly one rather younger than the speaker.
Man
One who swore allegiance to a lord in the Middle Ages; a vassal.
Boy
(obsolete) A male of low station, (especially as pejorative) a worthless male, a wretch; a mean and dishonest male, a knave.
Man
(Games) Any of the pieces used in a board game, such as chess or checkers.
Boy
A male servant, slave, assistant, or employee, particularly:
Man
(Nautical) A ship. Often used in combination
A merchantman.
A man-of-war.
Boy
A younger such worker.
Man
Often Man(Slang) A person or group felt to be in a position of power or authority. Used with the
"Their writing mainly concerns the street life—the pimp, the junky, the forces of drug addiction, exploitation at the hands of 'the man'" (Black World).
Boy
A non-white male servant regardless of age, particularly as a form of address.
Man
To supply with men, as for defense or service
Man a ship.
Boy
(obsolete) A male camp follower.
Man
To take stations at, as to defend or operate
Manned the guns.
Boy
Any non-white male, regardless of age.
Man
To fortify or brace
Manned himself for the battle ahead.
Boy
A male animal, especially, in affectionate address, a male dog.
C'mere, boy! Good boy! Who's a good boy?
Are you getting a boy cat or a girl cat?
Man
Used as an expletive to indicate intense feeling
Man! That was close.
Boy
A former low rank of various armed services; a holder of this rank.
Man
An adult male human.
The show is especially popular with middle-aged men.
Boy
Heroin.
Man
(collective) All human males collectively: mankind.
Boy
A male (tree, gene, etc).
Man
A human, a person regardless of gender, usually an adult. See usage notes.
Every man for himself
Boy
Exclamation of surprise, pleasure or longing.
Boy, that was close!
Boy, that tastes good!
Boy, I wish I could go to Canada!
Man
(collective) All humans collectively: mankind, humankind, humanity. Sometimes capitalized as Man.
Boy
(transitive) To act as a boy in allusion to the former practice of boys acting women's parts on the stage.
Man
A member of the genus Homo, especially of the species Homo sapiens.
Boy
A male child, from birth to the age of puberty; a lad; hence, a son.
My only boy fell by the side of great Dundee.
Man
A male person, usually an adult; a (generally adult male) sentient being, whether human, supernatural, elf, alien, etc.
Boy
In various countries, a male servant, laborer, or slave of a native or inferior race; also, any man of such a race; - considered derogatory by those so called, and now seldom used.
He reverted again and again to the labor difficulty, and spoke of importing boys from Capetown.
Man
An adult male who has, to an eminent degree, qualities considered masculine, such as strength, integrity, and devotion to family; a mensch.
Boy
To act as a boy; - in allusion to the former practice of boys acting women's parts on the stage.
I shall seeSome squeaking Cleopatra boy my greatness.
Man
Manliness; the quality or state of being manly.
Boy
A youthful male person;
The baby was a boy
She made the boy brush his teeth every night
Most soldiers are only boys in uniform
Man
A husband.
Boy
A friendly informal reference to a grown man;
He likes to play golf with the boys
Man
A male lover; a boyfriend.
Boy
A male human offspring;
Their son became a famous judge
His boy is taller than he is
Man
A male enthusiast or devotee; a male who is very fond of or devoted to a specified kind of thing. Used as the last element of a compound.
Some people prefer apple pie, but me, I’m a cherry pie man.
Boy
(ethnic slur) offensive term for Black man;
Get out of my way, boy
Man
A person, usually male, who has duties or skills associated with a specified thing. Used as the last element of a compound.
I wanted to be a guitar man on a road tour, but instead I’m a flag man on a road crew.
Boy
A male child or young person.
The little boy loved playing with his toy cars.
Man
A person, usually male, who can fulfill one's requirements with regard to a specified matter.
Man
A male who belongs to a particular group: an employee, a student or alumnus, a representative, etc.
Man
An adult male servant.
Man
(historical) A vassal; a subject.
All the king's men
Man
A piece or token used in board games such as chess.
Man
(sports) A player on whom another is playing, with the intent of limiting their attacking impact.
Man
: I, we; construed in the third person.
Man
Any person, one
Man
(transitive) To supply (something) with staff or crew (of either sex).
The ship was manned with a small crew.
Man
(transitive) To take up position in order to operate (something).
Man the machine guns!
Man
To brace (oneself), to fortify or steel (oneself) in a manly way. Compare man up.
Man
To wait on, attend to or escort.
Man
To accustom (a raptor or other type of bird) to the presence of people.
Man
A human being; - opposed to beast.
These men went about wide, and man found they none,But fair country, and wild beast many [a] one.
The king is but a man, as I am; the violet smells to him as it doth to me.
'Tain't a fit night out for man nor beast!
Man
An adult male person; a grown-up male person, as distinguished from a woman or a child.
When I became a man, I put away childish things.
Ceneus, a woman once, and once a man.
Man
The human race; mankind.
And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness, and let them have dominion.
The proper study of mankind is man.
Man
The male portion of the human race.
Woman has, in general, much stronger propensity than man to the discharge of parental duties.
Man
One possessing in a high degree the distinctive qualities of manhood; one having manly excellence of any kind.
This was the noblest Roman of them all . . . the elementsSo mixed in him that Nature might stand upAnd say to all the world "This was a man!"
Man
An adult male servant; also, a vassal; a subject.
Like master, like man.
The vassal, or tenant, kneeling, ungirt, uncovered, and holding up his hands between those of his lord, professed that he did become his man from that day forth, of life, limb, and earthly honor.
Man
A term of familiar address at one time implying on the part of the speaker some degree of authority, impatience, or haste; as, Come, man, we 've no time to lose! In the latter half of the 20th century it became used in a broader sense as simply a familiar and informal form of address, but is not used in business or formal situations; as, hey, man! You want to go to a movie tonight?.
Man
A married man; a husband; - correlative to wife.
I pronounce that they are man and wife.
Every wife ought to answer for her man.
Man
One, or any one, indefinitely; - a modified survival of the Saxon use of man, or mon, as an indefinite pronoun.
A man can not make him laugh.
A man would expect to find some antiquities; but all they have to show of this nature is an old rostrum of a Roman ship.
Man
One of the piece with which certain games, as chess or draughts, are played.
Man
To supply with men; to furnish with a sufficient force or complement of men, as for management, service, defense, or the like; to guard; as, to man a ship, boat, or fort.
See how the surly Warwick mans the wall !
They man their boats, and all their young men arm.
Man
To furnish with strength for action; to prepare for efficiency; to fortify.
Man
To tame, as a hawk.
Man
To furnish with a servant or servants.
Man
To wait on as a manservant.
Man
An adult male person (as opposed to a woman);
There were two women and six men on the bus
Man
Someone who serves in the armed forces; a member of a military force;
Two men stood sentry duty
Man
The generic use of the word to refer to any human being;
It was every man for himself
Man
All of the inhabitants of the earth;
All the world loves a lover
She always used `humankind' because `mankind' seemed to slight the women
Man
Any living or extinct member of the family Hominidae
Man
A male subordinate;
The chief stationed two men outside the building
He awaited word from his man in Havana
Man
An adult male person who has a manly character (virile and courageous competent);
The army will make a man of you
Man
A male person who plays a significant role (husband or lover or boyfriend) in the life of a particular woman;
She takes good care of her man
Man
A manservant who acts as a personal attendant to his employer;
Jeeves was Bertie Wooster's man
Man
One of the British Isles in the Irish Sea
Man
Game equipment consisting of an object used in playing certain board games;
He taught me to set up the men on the chess board
He sacrificed a piece to get a strategic advantage
Man
Take charge of a certain job; occupy a certain work place;
Mr. Smith manned the reception desk in the morning
Man
Provide with men;
We cannot man all the desks
Man
A human regardless of gender, often used in the collective sense.
All of mankind must work towards a sustainable future.
Man
A male employee or worker, especially in manual labor.
The repair man fixed the leak in no time.
Man
A male character or persona, used in various expressions.
He's the man of the house, taking on many responsibilities.
Common Curiosities
What defines a man?
A man is an adult male, usually 18 years and above, with implied maturity.
What defines a boy?
A boy is generally a male child or young person.
What is the age range for someone to be considered a boy?
Typically, a boy is under 18 years old, but it can vary culturally.
Can a man still be called a boy?
Informally or endearingly, yes, especially in certain relationships.
Are the societal expectations different for a boy and a man?
Yes, men are often expected to be more responsible and independent.
Is accountability different for a boy and a man?
Yes, men are generally held to higher standards of accountability.
Do the definitions of boy and man vary across cultures?
Yes, cultural norms can influence the perceptions and definitions.
Can the term boy be used for adults?
Yes, sometimes it's used informally or affectionately for adult males.
Is the transition from boy to man just physical?
No, it includes physical, emotional, and societal changes.
How is emotional maturity different for a boy and a man?
Boys are developing emotionally, while men are expected to be more emotionally mature.
Can 'man' be used to refer to all humans?
Yes, as in 'mankind', referring to humans collectively.
Are there ceremonies that mark the transition from boy to man?
Yes, many cultures have rites of passage marking this transition.
Is maturity a requirement to be considered a man?
Generally, yes, maturity is an expected attribute of a man.
What role does age play in defining a boy and a man?
Age is a key factor, with boys being younger and men being adults.
Can the terms boy and man be used affectionately?
Yes, both can be terms of endearment in certain contexts.
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